The Lily of the Valley
Honoré de Balzac (1799–1850), 1836
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A young man remembers the married woman who taught him desire and restraint in a French valley—and the cost of loving someone who refuses to be possessed. The novel moves with a lyrical, remembering voice, tender and longing, and a pace that lingers on feeling more than event.
Feels like longing and tenderness. About love, memory and faith.
Who it’s for
You may like it if you enjoy tender, faith-tinged love stories and slow, lyrical prose that stays close to memory and feeling. The reflective, faith-centered passages can slow the story, so it asks for patience with an unhurried pace.
Why read it
It offers a tender, lyrical study of first love and renunciation, and a portrait of a woman who shapes a young man's sense of restraint.
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The night a star in your sky turns into a person.
A new soul, a soul with iridescent wings, had burst its chrysalis within me. My favorite star, dropping from the blue waste where I had admired it, had become woman, while preserving its light, its sparkle, and its brilliancy. Suddenly, knowing nothing of love, I had fallen in love. Is not this first irruption of the most intense feeling a man can know a very strange thing? I had met some pretty women in my aunt’s drawing-room; they had not made the slightest impression on me. Is there an hour, a conjunction of the stars, a combination of fitting circumstances, a particular woman above all other women, which seal a passion as exclusive at the age when passion includes the whole female sex? The morning you realise the world is smaller than your appetite for it.
This is the outcome of the finest sentiments, the greatest dramas of youth. We all set forth one fine morning, as I had started from Tours for Clochegourde, annexing the world, our heart craving for love; then, when our treasure has been through the crucible, when we have mixed with men, and known events, it all seems unaccountably small, we find so little gold among the ashes. Such is life—life in its reality!—a great deal of aspiration, a small result. Every family has a wound it has agreed not to mention.
Though families bury duly their terrible quarrels, look into their life; you will find in almost every house some wide incurable wounds blighting natural feeling; or some genuine and pathetic passion which affinity of character makes eternal, and which gives an added shock to the hand of death, leaving a dark and ineradicable bruise; or again, simmering hatred, slowly petrifying the heart, and freezing up all tears at the moment of eternal parting. Honoré de Balzac.Balzac drew on his long affair with Laure de Berny, twenty-two years his senior, for the novel's older married heroine; he called her 'Dilecta'.
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Questions readers ask
- Is The Lily of the Valley for me?
- You may like it if you enjoy tender, faith-tinged love stories and slow, lyrical prose that stays close to memory and feeling. The reflective, faith-centered passages can slow the story, so it asks for patience with an unhurried pace.
- What is The Lily of the Valley like?
- The novel moves with a lyrical, remembering voice, tender and longing, and a pace that lingers on feeling more than event. Feels like longing and tenderness. About love, memory and faith.
- What should I read after The Lily of the Valley?
- If you liked The Lily of the Valley, try Sonnets from the Portuguese (Elizabeth Barrett Browning), It Ends with Us (Colleen Hoover) and The gardener (Rabindranath Tagore).
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What it costs to hand someone the ashes of your grief.
I lift my heavy heart up solemnly, As once Electra her sepulchral urn, And, looking in thine eyes, I overturn The ashes at thy feet. Behold and see What a great heap of grief lay hid in me, And how the red wild sparkles dimly burn Through the ashen greyness. If thy foot in scorn Could tread them out to darkness utterly, It might be well perhaps. But if instead Thou wait beside me for the wind to blow The grey dust up—those laurels on thine head, O my Beloved, will not shield thee so, That none of all the fires shall scorch and shred The hair beneath. Stand further off then! Go.
Sonnets from the Portuguese · Elizabeth Barrett Browning
Some love stories are made mostly of the time in between.
I fell in love with her when we were together, then fell deeper in love with her in the years we were apart. Our story has three parts: a beginning, a middle, and an end. And although this is the way all stories unfold, I still can’t believe that ours didn’t go on forever.
Dear John · Nicholas Sparks
The moment a parent's love turns into fear of the world.
Wind whines and whines the shingle, The crazy pierstakes groan; A senile sea numbers each single Slimesilvered stone. From whining wind and colder Grey sea I wrap him warm And touch his trembling fineboned shoulder And boyish arm. Around us fear, descending Darkness of fear above And in my heart how deep unending Ache of love!
Poetry · James Joyce
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